Sexual Four tipo de personalidade mbti
Personalidade
"¿Qué tipo de personalidad es Sexual Four? Sexual Four es un tipo de personalidad ISFP en mbti, 4w3 - sx/so - 468 en enneagram, RLUEI en Big 5, ESI en Socionics."
⚠️ 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮 𝗦𝗫𝟰 𝟏. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐞𝐧𝐯𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐠𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧. "We could characterize envy of the sexual subtype as aggressive oral envy, which bites. Psychoanalysis speaks of 'cannibalistic' impulses" SX4s don't just want what you have, they want it with a burning hunger that lashes out. If someone never gets competitive, never turns desire into hostility and always acts composed when someone else shines… they're probably not a SX4. This subtype feels lack and goes for the jugular when reminded of it. 𝟐. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲’𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐝𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐭𝐞. "It is essential for sexual E4 to come to understand that hate is a hard drug, an addiction from which one cannot be cured forever" SX4s chase emotional highs and lows like addicts. If someone lives with emotional moderation, doesn't use hate or protest as a way to feel alive and isn't stucked in dramatic dynamics, they're not SX4. For this subtype, intensity= identity. 𝟑. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐚𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐬 𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲. "This elegant way of attacking is supported by another warrior, forceful, sectarian and Manichaean way of judging others." SX4s will turn their taste, their mood or their pain into a weapon. They play the> i'm more real, more deep, more evolved than you card. If someone never plays elitist games or uses uniqueness to feel superior or doesn't use sensibility to passive-aggressively shame others then they're not this subtype. 𝟒. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲’𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬. "With so much looking outside and comparing experiences, I lost my center… I grew up believing myself the most mature, but deep down it served to avoid responsibility for my laziness." While SX4s crave emotional intensity, they avoid real commitment. If you think someone is stable, not moody, doesn't burn bridges with dramatic overreactions or doesn't collapse into self-pity when they have been ignored, they're not a SX4. 𝟓. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲’𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. "It is healing to cool down the emotion… realizing how absurd it is to want to control something as uncontrollable as affections." A clear sign you’re not SX4? You don’t obsessively compare how much love you're getting compared to others. They are always in alert to emotional imbalance, they track attention like as if it was oxygen. If someone's secure in love and doesn't keep emotional scores,they prob. aren't SX4s. 𝟔. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐞. "Everything and nothing are especially dangerous words for this character because they open the doors to unreason, to the excess of hateful hell" SX4s flip between self-hate and delusions of specialness , they are l**atic asf under this aspect, so either they're the most brilliant, misunderstood soul alive or they're ga*bage. If someone's self-image is relatively stable, not torn between shame and grandeur, they might not a SX4. 𝟕. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐛𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞. "All of these are smoke screens, performances that are not relevant and mislead the real content of the conversation and the meeting" SX4s don't just talk, they perform, in the sense that conversations can turn into emotional rollercoasters where it's less about connecting and more about being felt. If someone usually keeps it simple, stays on topic and doesn't drown you in mood swings or dramatic flair, they're probably not this type. SX4s want you to feel them even if it means creating chaos just to stand out. 𝟖. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐮𝐩 𝐯𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲. "If you have so much capacity to hate, you have the same capacity to love." The core of SX4 isn't that they are mean ,as many people think, it's that they're hurt, but instead of showing that hurt, they go on the offense mode. If someone can sit with their fears, admit when they're feeling vulnerable and doesn't immediately lash out or turn pain into blame, they're probably not this subtype. For SX4s, hate is just the armor > underneath it, it's all about a craving for love.
Biografia
Sexual Fours make others suffer as an unconscious way of trying to rid themselves of painful feelings of deficiency. In denying their suffering and being more shameless than shameful, they express their needs more and can be demanding of others. In seeking to be the best, they express Envy in its manifestation as competition. They express “an Envy that wants,” unconsciously turning their pain at inner lack into feelings of anger about not getting what they need from others. SX4 Trait Structure and Descriptions: https://wiki.personality-database.com/books/enneagram/page/sexual-4-in-detail
